Jamal and the Worry Jar
by
Patches the Story Dog
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Jamal loved quiet afternoons. He would sit at his small wooden desk by the window and think big thoughts. The golden sunlight would spill across his room like warm honey. His chessboard sat waiting, right in the middle of a game.
Jamal loved chess most of all. He loved to plan his moves, one by one. He loved how each piece had a job to do. Chess made his mind feel calm and clear, like a still pond.
But today was different. Today, Jamal's mind did not feel still. It felt loud and full, like a jar packed too tight. He tried to move a chess piece, but he could not think. He had too many worries bumping around inside his head.
His mom came in and sat on the soft rug beside him. "You look like you have a lot on your mind," she said softly. Jamal nodded. "My head feels too full," he whispered. "I can not stop thinking about things that worry me."
His mom smiled and placed a clear glass jar with a lid on his desk. Next to it, she set a stack of colorful paper strips and a cup of sharpened pencils. "This is a worry jar," she said. "When a worry feels big, you write it down on a strip of paper. Then you name the feeling. Then you fold it up and drop it in the jar."
Jamal picked up a pencil and a blue strip of paper. He wrote: "I have a hard spelling test on Friday." Then he thought about how that made him feel. "I feel scared," he said out loud. He wrote the word SCARED under his worry. He folded the paper up small and dropped it into the jar. Clink! The worry felt a little lighter already.
Jamal picked up a green strip next. He wrote: "My friend seemed upset at lunch today, and I do not know why." He closed his eyes and thought. "I feel worried," he said. He wrote the word WORRIED and folded the paper tight. He dropped it into the jar. Clink! That worry got a little smaller, too.
Then Jamal picked up a yellow strip. He wrote: "A loud storm is coming tonight, and storms are very loud." He took a deep breath. "I feel nervous," he said. He wrote NERVOUS and folded the paper. He dropped it in. Clink! Three worries sat in the jar now, small and folded. And Jamal's chest did not feel so tight anymore.
Just then, the doorbell rang. Jamal's best friend was here to play chess! His best friend ran in and saw the jar on the desk. "What is that?" his best friend asked. "It is my worry jar," said Jamal. "You write down a worry, name the feeling, and fold it up. It makes the worry smaller."
"Can I try?" his best friend asked. "Yes!" said Jamal. His best friend picked up an orange strip and wrote down a worry. Then they talked about it out loud. "I feel shy when I have to read in front of the class," his best friend said. "I feel that way sometimes, too," said Jamal. Saying it out loud made the worry shrink even more.
They took turns sharing worries and naming feelings. Scared. Worried. Nervous. Shy. Each time they said a feeling out loud to each other, it got smaller and easier to hold. "It is like the worries do not want to stay big," said Jamal, "when you share them with someone you trust."
By the time they set up the chessboard for a new game, Jamal's jar was full of tiny folded papers. But his heart felt light and free. He smiled at his best friend and moved his first chess piece. His mind was calm and clear again, like a still pond. Worries do not have to stay big — not when you name them, and not when you share them.